being friends with someone who intimidates you because they’re so amazing
Procrastination is not typically a function of laziness, apathy or work ethic as it is often regarded to be. It’s a neurotic self-defense behavior that develops to protect a person’s sense of self-worth.
You see, procrastinators tend to be people who have, for whatever reason, developed to perceive an unusually strong association between their performance and their value as a person. This makes failure or criticism disproportionately painful, which leads naturally to hesitancy when it comes to the prospect of doing anything that reflects their ability — which is pretty much everything…
Because it is rewarding on the short term, procrastination eventually takes on the form of an addiction to the temporary relief from these deep-rooted fears. Procrastinators get an extremely gratifying “hit” whenever they decide to let themselves off the hook for the rest of the day, only to wake up to a more tightly squeezed day with even less confidence.
Once a pattern of procrastination is established, it can be perpetuated for reasons other than the fear of failure. For example, if you know you have a track record of taking weeks to finally do something that might only take two hours if you weren’t averse to it, you begin to see every non-simple task as a potentially endless struggle. So a modest list of 10-12 medium-complexity to-do’s might represent to you an insurmountable amount of work, so it feels hopeless just to start one little part of one task. This hones a hair-trigger overwhelm response, and life gets really difficult really easily.
Gotta reblog this again cause it’s painfully relevant to my life
the best way to start reading marvel comics it’s to just say “fuck it”, pick up whatever and then spiral down into a pit of despair and superhero feelings
I like emoticons like “uwu” and “eue” because I can’t see them as faces so I just read them aloud as noises and associate that noise with the appropriate emotion and it makes me feel like people are doing little friendly birdcalls at each other.
"yeah you’ll grow out of enjoying anime eventually"
LISTEN LET ME TELL YOU SOMETHING. I PUT ANIME DOWN FOR LIKE, YEARS. I WAS INTO TV FANDOMS AND MOVIE FANDOMS. I DID OTHER THINGS. GEEKY THINGS YEAH, BUT OTHER THINGS. AND THEN I FUCKING GOT BITTEN BY THE ANIME BUG AGAIN AND IT’S TERMINAL NOW, I AM A FULL ANIME. YOU CAN’T ESCAPE. IT COMES BACK. IT COMES BACK